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dedicatetofitness:

mellofello:

This is completely 100% not true. And honestly, I’m offended when girls think this way that every guy just wants to have sex with a girl just because he can.

If this was true, then what me and my best guy friends are standing for nothing. For example, one of my best friends waited until he was 18 to pretty much do anything more than just make out with a girl because he wanted to be in love…in which he did fall in love and he’s very happy.

I know quite a number of men that are VERY respectable and are what we call “gentlemen” in today’s society.

If you want another example, I’ve been single for over a year and haven’t even touched a girl because I don’t do hook-ups. Haven’t kissed, cuddled, or done any of those cute things. I control myself, and I’m waiting for the right girl and the right moment to come. I have had opportunities…but never took them because it just didn’t feel right inside.

Just because you’ve had a few bad experiences with guys doesn’t mean that every single one is that way. That’s like me walking around town saying, “Every girl just wants money, attention, and free things.” Not true. Although this may have been the qualities of girls that I have dated in the past, they may have changed.

Also, another thing to keep in mind (ladies). There is a HUGE difference between a boy and a man. Boys are immature, curious, and out to be the best. Men, have a way of respecting and (attempt) to understand women.

I recently read a book called “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.” Completely changed my outlook on how relationships and problems should be handled…I now know that women don’t want to be told how to fix their problems, as much as they just want to be heard.

Please get this out of your head, friend. You’re so much better than this, and you’re a beautiful person with a beautiful blog! When you walk around with this attitude, you’ll self-prophesize these things and you’ll wait for it to happen…

Take chances, but keep your guard up. Don’t go kissing and falling for every guy you see. And when I say “you,” I’m saying “you in general.” This is not directed towards anybody specifically.

Not all guys are out to have sex with you. Promise. There are MANY gentlemen in this world. Just as there are ladies, like yourself, out there :) But Gentlemen don’t approach girls with this kind of attitude.

It’s nice to know that there are guys like this.

Not fitness-related, I’m sorry.

But every single word hit home with me, and I figured maybe some of you could benefit from this too. Thank you so much.

Not fitness related, but listen to this guy. I user to think that way until I met a MAN who would do absolutely anything it took just to make me happy. He is so fantastic and I know he would never cheat on me. It changes your life when you find that person that makes you realize, relationships aren’t stressful. They are fin and happy and fulfilling.